Learning to love YOU ❤️

An open letter to anyone who needs it.

So, the crazy part about all of this is that you have to actually sit down and give time to yourself. Like I said crazy right? We spend a lot of time consumed with others and social media that we actually don’t have time for ourselves and when we do get time, we do things to keep from spending time with ourselves. Ask yourself this, -Are you really 100% comfortable with just being you? Completely you, with no add-ons, like 100% raw and uncut you? Are you comfortable with spending time with yourself and not others just to have time to get to know you? If your answer was no to any one of these questions, do you really love yourself? Don’t you know that you are beautifully and wonderfully made?

Now I know that we all struggle(d) with self-esteem and self-confidence issues, but are we letting those “flaws” ( or what others see as flaws,) get in the way of truly accepting who we are as a person? Have you found that appreciation and that value for yourself? If not, I want to share some different blogs and articles about self-love and truly becoming in love with YOU. It’s definitely a process and it does take some time, but getting to know you and learning to love you is the best thing you can do for yourself.

Here are some helpful guides:

“A Seven-Step Prescription for Self-Love” by Dr. Deborah Khoshaba

My Radical Realization About Self-Love

Tips for Building Self Esteem & Self Love!

Of course, no one can teach you how to love yourself, but I do hope that these tips and testimonies are helpful. A lot of our issues within ourselves are due to a lack of love and acceptance of who we truly are. If you love you, I promise what someone else has to say won’t even matter.

“If you don’t love yourself, how in the hell you gonna love somebody else?” – Ru Paul

I love you,

Brandi 😘

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